
Alan Shayne and Norman Sunshine met more than 50 years ago. They have written a dual memoir of their lives together as a gay couple in the upper reaches of society. (Taylor Jones / Palm Beach Post)
Begin with the beginning.
They met in 1958, after a matinee of Jamaica, a Harold Arlen musical starring Lena Horne. Understudy Alan Shayne went on that day in place of star Ricardo Montalban. In the audience was a young artist named Norman Sunshine, who had gone to the show with a friend.
After the show they went backstage because the friend had worked with Shayne on television. Alan and Norman met, shook hands. There was a slight spark, but nothing spectacular. That came later, but not much later.
Fifty-three years later, the part-time West Palm Beach residents have written Double Life, a dual memoir of two lives lived openly together, at a time when that sort of thing wasn’t done, or, if it was done, was done surreptitiously.
Each of them has focused on creative endeavors – Shayne eventually quit acting, got into production and rose to become president of Warner Bros. television; Sunshine devised the "What Becomes a Legend Most?" ads for Blackglama, later serving as creative director for Lear’s magazine. Mostly, though, he’s concentrated on his fine art.
But the book makes clear that the most meaningful creation for these men has come from the mutual making of their life together. In one sense, it’s a book consciously written by tribal elders for those who come after. This is how we did it, they’re saying. This is the way it was. Weren’t we lucky? And aren’t you even luckier?
"We decided to tell the truth," says Shayne, as the two men relax in their stunning wrap-around downtown waterfront condo. "In retrospect, we can see that much of what we lived through was because people were afraid to be themselves. So we made a conscious decision to be ourselves. We felt we had a responsibility to tell our story for anyone who thinks that gay life is paradise and costumes."
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